Many fights actually begin at or near home; before a disagreement turns into an altercation, try to defuse the situation. In any altercation, use positive reinforcement. "I know / am sure you're a nice person, but I would rather not (fill in the blank)." Remember, martial arts are not just collections of fighting techniques, but "arts" by which we defend the quality of life for ourselves and others.
"Budo" and "kung fu" have rather holistic meanings for everyday life, and not simply "martial arts", as they are so commonly translated. In this sense, "martial art" may itself take on a new meaning. "Martial" certainly connotes fighting tactics, yet "art" presents a deeper level of understanding. Do everything you can to "preserve the whole". Do not fight if possible, or to take the path of least resistance if conflict is inevitable. Fight out of necessity rather than hostility.
Let us further look into how to apply the art of strategy as it relates to self defense. The attacker believes he/she has an advantage. This may include a weapon, surprise, strength, and so forth. He / she is also more likely to attack you if he / she sees you as a potential victim. Therefore, be cautious when you are fatigued or alone, and do not appear timid, even if you are smaller than potential attackers. Always try to stay aware, and prepared to talk your way out of a situation, or defend yourself.
The environment, mindset of the attacker, and effects of panic will further handicap you. Your attackers do not come at you in prearranged patterns. You have to be ready to fight back, and take the initiative, because every second counts!
The best defense is a good offense. Use distance and the environment; be spontaneous. This is all very important against multiple assailants! Your movements must be fluid, economical, and not overly mechanical. The longer the fight, the more dangerous it becomes! When you are in unfamiliar territory, try to scan for escape routes, taking potential obstacles into account. Don't forget to pack along something like pepper spray, or be ready to pinch and bite if needed to distract adversaries before your knockout blow. Overall, you want to be as prepared as possible for potential violence.
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